Thursday, March 6, 2014

Seven

How does this sweet baby face change to 

this one so quickly?!  I know I say it every year, but seven REALLY seems so much older than six.   She's grown up so much this year.  First grade (and being at school all day) is such a big jump.  She's doing the Mandarin immersion program and it's been a great fit for her.  One day she took quarters to buy some pencils and came home with the quarters.  When I asked her why she brought the quarters back unspent, she said, "well, the machine didn't work and it just took the quarters.  So I found Mrs. Pratt and told her and got my quarters back." Sometimes I'm amazed that she's her own independent person all day long. 

I don't blog much but I figured if I write some things out on each of my children's birthdays then all will not be forgotten when they are older!  Kids change so quickly that I find myself forgetting all the little things they do.  Here are some things I want to record/remember about her at this age:
Samara loves to draw and make notes for and about everything and for everyone.  The school she attends for the immersion program is not in our boundaries.  One day my neighbor, who knows Samara goes there, stopped by and told me how she volunteers at the library to help her friend, who is the school librarian. The librarian proudly showed her a drawing one of the students had given her.  The librarian thought it was so clever and sweet.  Our neighbor noticed it was signed "Samara B" and said, "that has to be my little neighbor".

I love her creativity and imagination.  She's always coming up with something.  After we came home from a trip to Bryce Canyon, she made a note for the door that said "Welcome to Bryce Canyon Inn" and put numbers on each of the doors in our house representing a room in the Inn.  She ran a hotel for a couple weeks after the trip.

She loves to take the lead and has a good sense of responsibility.  She was born wanting to run the show. :)  I recently wrote her teacher about some homework because I wasn't sure Samara understood correctly and her teacher wrote back "Samara is a very responsible student.  If she tells you something about homework then you can believe her."

She loves being involved whenever she gets to come to YW activities with me and jumps right in to plan things. She helped with an activity recently that was at our house and said, "I'm Sister Bikman Jr. and I'm in charge of …." then proceeded to tell the girls about the activity.  She loves having a babysitter--a captive teenage friend!

 In primary, I've been told several times, "we can always count on Samara to give an answer."  She obviously gets that from her dad and not me!  ;) We were talking about that one day when she said something to the effect that it's so hard to know the answer because she feels obligated to respond and then grown ups always think it's so funny/cute.  


Samara is a fun friend.  Every day when I ask her who she played with at recess, she tells me a different name.  "I just play with whoever is around." One of her classmates moved last week and wanted to do his last playdate with Samara.  When I dropped her off, I was telling his mom how much Samara enjoyed playing with him.  His mom then told me how he struggled finding friends and one day she was at the school helping and feeling sad about it.  So, she asked the teacher's aide who she thought could be a playmate for him and Samara piped in.  They've been buddies ever since.  Proud mama moment!

We sure love our spunky and spirited SEVEN year old.

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

One Year Old

This beautiful soul is one!  I can't believe it.  Only posting this two months later because I actually took him to a studio for photos but the photographer's memory card got fried.  So much for alleviating the stress of photos.  :)  It's taken me this long to get around to taking pictures myself. 

I'm so grateful Asher is part of our family.  His sweet spirit has been a calming comfort to me this past year.  I really don't know what I would have done without him.


He poked and nibbled but didn't fully invest into the cake smash.  This was his actual birthday.



Some of his favorites and things we want to remember about him at the one year mark.

Since his birthday, he's taken a few steps but isn't interested in walking.  He's becoming a tease and likes to be involved.  He loves crawling up the stairs and finding things to get into.  He loves the dishwasher and being outside.


The best is when he wants my attention and I'm talking to someone else.  He'll lean his head to the side and look at me.  If I don't start paying attention then he gives me slobbery kisses.  I love it!  Asher boy, thank you for the goodness, happiness, laughter, and love you bring into our home.  We're so glad you're our boy!

Monday, January 27, 2014

Ice Castle


We ventured up to the ice castle in Midway.  It is really cool (literally) and worth the visit.

Sunday, January 19, 2014

Eleven Months

Asher normally LOVES the camera.  He readily smiles and is happy to get his photo taken.

This month…not so much.  He smiled for about 30 seconds and then wanted to crawl out of the bucket. He was obsessed and determined to grab the camera.  This wasn't such a bad thing because I am obsessed with the faces he makes when he's upset.  I'm so glad I captured them.

He has a pouty bottom lip that quivers to warn you of his impending sobs.  My dad used to tease me about my pouty bottom lip and I can see why he thought it was so cute. :)

His cry is still pretty mellow comparatively and he's really so dang cute when he wails.  

Samara was trying to help me get him to smile.  She said to him, "Asher, you better smile or mom will only have these to post on Instagram and that will ruin your reputation of always smiling."  bahaa! Where does she come up with these things?  

His new tricks this past month included saying "maa" (more), crawling, and giving kisses on demand.
My sweet baby boy, please don't turn one!!

Thursday, December 19, 2013

Ten Months

 Finally... a mutually enjoyable activaty for these two.  She loves being responsible for him and he gets a big kick of riding in the doll stroller.  And why shouldn't he?!  Doll companies would make a fortune if they replicated him. :)

The dimple!

When I pulled out his monthly stickers, I almost cried seeing there are only two left.

Growing up means these beautiful thighs will sadly thin out. 

He's working on his crawl.


He's not in a hurry to learn and that is OK with me.


His new tricks this month are clapping when you say, "Yay for Asher!" and shaking his head "no" when you ask him a question.

He says, "Mama", "Dada", "Hi" and waves "bye-bye".

Even when he's stressed and on the verge of fussing, he's still sweet.

4.5 teeth and counting.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Trimming the Tree

Today was a magical day for me and probably one of the nicest I've had all year.  This year has been long and the past few months have been frustrating and stressful.  I've just been piddling by and not enjoying life much.  But today was wonderful.  Nothing elaborate just a simple and enjoyable day.   We saw "Frozen"and I thoroughly enjoyed it (yes, I do need to get out more)!  My sister hosted a wonderful dinner.  It was so stress-free and delicious.  Kids played with cousins and all got along great. Then it was home to trim the tree. There is nothing I love more than the smell of the tree, pulling out our ornaments from all over the world, and listening to Christmas music while we decorate. 


 Elizabeth couldn't get enough of hanging the ornaments.   Poor thing has had a rough time lately with some health concerns (nothing life threatening, but frustrating).   I LOVE seeing her happy.






 She wanted everyone to lift her up higher.

The best part is we are going to cut down a second tree tomorrow, a dream come true.  I've always wanted two trees!


Feeling blessed to have such a splendid day.  I must admit though that I'm not sure Santa's elf won't be rearranging some of the ornaments. :)

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Nine Months

I think it's totally immoral and wrong how fast babies grow up!
Nine months old and I finally have a photo that shows his darling dimple.

He's got four teeth and the most delicious thighs eva!
He eats like a champ and handles being sick pretty well, 
which he's been every time a darn tooth comes in.
Only recently started sleeping un swaddled.
Hates being on his stomach and may never crawl, which I am totally fine with.  
I love me a stationary baby!

My sister calls him "eye candy" because of his red hair and bright blue eyes. 

He loves his papa and lights up whenever Ben comes home.

He met one of his BFFs, who is living oversees.   I just know they'll be best pals someday.

He took his cute girlfriend on a date to Sundance.

Don't worry--they had chaperones.